Frustration to your destination
Just the other day I was walking through a college campus and saw a trashcan overflowing with garbage on the school property. I was frustrated thinking that no one working there cared to change it! I could also tell you about the time I had a business say they were going to call me at a certain time and called me 4 days late! I now know that providing people with the best experience is something that really gets on my nerves when I don’t see that followed through.
So often I find myself frustrated by some of the littlest things that some people don't even see as a problem! It doesn’t make me anything special or any better then anyone else though. Its just that’s what frustrates me more then others. Have you ever found yourself frustrated in ways that other people don’t understand?
I am now convinced that: Your frustration is a rough situation that will give you an indication to your future destination. That might sound like a tongue twister but there is a lot of truth behind this statement and I will try to break it down for you the best I can.
Your frustration is a rough situation:
I understand that being frustrated is not fun in any way possible. To make it even worse it happens almost daily. Whether it is with a significant other, a passion for something you do, something you tried so hard for, and many more reasons. The point is we go through frustration daily!
The reason why we get frustrated if you think about it is usually because we want something. We want to have a better grade, more affection, better promotion, better reputation, and another chance. It sort of sounds like greed sometimes when you think about why we get frustrated at times. For me with the story in the beginning I wanted a better experience so I got frustrated. My want became an unnecessary need, which led to a horrible time of frustration.
Don’t get me wrong though being frustrated at times isn’t a bad thing and obviously also very common. Through frustration there is also so much you can learn and so much opportunity to grow as an individual. Through every frustrating time in my life I have always grown and have always come out better then before I have started.
Always keep on the mindset that this frustration is a season and focus on all the great things around you. Why let some silly situations distract you from a bigger picture of life. I am a strong believer though that the frustration is just an indication of what is to come ahead from this situation.
That will give you an indication to your future destination:
When I am talking about here is that through this frustration you should learn something about yourself that will help you improve after the frustration ends. Something I hate is when someone either 1. Goes through something or 2. Has so much to say but no matter which one it is never finds a way to grow through the problem. Through frustration there is so much room to grow and it is crazy that you wouldn’t take the chance to do that!
For example through my frustration at the school I now know that maybe I would be good at customer service. I know that next time maybe I can just take the trash out and be an example. I could also realize that not everything is going to be how I like it done all the time.
Through that frustration though I now have an indication and a piece on how to improve myself to determine where I go to in the future of my life. So use that frustration to help show you where to improve and what you will be good at! Don’t go through life frustrated yet try to find a way to improve yourself and everything around you.
To defeat frustration you have to be focused on the outcome instead of the obstacles. Don’t just come up with complaints yet just try to find solutions on how to make things better and do them. Be a change and be a difference to everything around you because no matter what you are going through… ITS NOT OVER